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Spending money was being a jerk; it was time to move on. Luckily, minimalism was there for me as a rebound relationship and, yet, we are still going strong as we spend less to live more! And we all lived happily ever after…. Or something weird like that.
Turns out breaking up with spending was a great way to fast track minimalism because it meant I had to dump things like mindless purchases, clutter anxiety, and financial worry.
Joy, space, and financial security are a few of the rewards I have received with minimalism.
Grab the tissues we are going on a
weird, romantic journey…..
THE ART OF BREAKING UP
Minimalism as with anything new was a tough change. I had been forced to live as a minimalist (compliments of the United States Navy) and I rebelled by buying. Typical.
As with any lesson that sticks, I had to learn the hard, painful way.
After years of disappointment of partying, fast-food excess, shopping sprees, and barely restrained spending – it was time to break up with a relationship that had become unhealthy.
Luckily, as I traveled on the bumpy breakup road, I met minimalism.
Minimalism encourages me to live with intention. It’s a way I express the love of what I do and have instead of defaulting to things that don’t add value.
In the end, I am trying to cull what I don’t want to spend my time and money on. I want to live more intentionally with my time, money, and fewer belongings. Apparently, this is how I decided to opt in on adulting.
THE HARDEST PART IS THE START
As with anything new, I started easing into this relationship slowly with clothes.
Clothes were easy for me because I had a lot but I didn’t wear a lot. I used the 20/80 rule to ease into this process. As in, keeping 20% of my clothes, that I wore 80% of the time.
This is my magical ratio. I focus on the 20%. I have limited resources and focusing on the 20% allows me to conserve energy and time for what matters.
This ratio has been useful for decluttering but it has also helped with other areas like work, writing, cleaning the bathroom….so many possibilities!
After I completed decluttering my clothes, I gradually moved to harder areas like books, home décor, and eventually arriving at digital pictures.
It has been a long process but it’s one that has built small milestones along the way. These milestones have served as a reminder of where I began but also, that good relationships take little effort every day.
I would say I have decluttered about 75% of my belongings. Aww, that’s so cute!
IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT
Liberating is a good word to describe the happy feelings I get from getting rid of stuff.
Is it all the exercise from decluttering providing endorphins? Probably. Perhaps it’s having more space which feels like living in a fancy home décor magazine. Sure, why not?
It does feel addicting at times. I love those endorphins that come rolling in from purging goods from my home and mind.
Instead of being a museum curator where I dust, catalog, and maintain a million items, I can do fun things like draw, hike, or work on my Life List. Is this what they mean by living the dream?
LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP RESULTS
Life is short.
How did I plan on spending it? Well, when I’m not on Coronavacation, I spend 40 hours a week at work. Good thing I love my job as a Park Ranger!
I am left with 24ish hours on the weekend. How do I want to spend my time? Spoiler Alert: it doesn’t rhyme with cleaning or maintaining.
These are activities I prefer to replace with soul sucking adulting: going for a run by the river where I can watch geese heckle each other. Laughing at myself as I try to twist my tongue into a new French word. Crafting letters into something that someone will find pleasant to read.
Spend less to live more has been a motto for decluttering and I. It’s something we value and invest in frequently. Because my life is worth more than how much I can spend.
Are you in a relationship with decluttering? Or do you give the stink eye to anything starting with “spend less to live more”?