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My merry, bright, and on budget is going to be $440 which is much lower than the expected average of $998.
I still struggle with the guilt of “I should have bought more” until I remind myself that love isn’t transactional.
Though much of my focus is on the gilded gift-giving, the typical Christmas gift exchange lasts less than an hour compared to the other hours spent watching movies, cooking, and talking.
As I unwrap memories, it is the time spent outside of the gift exchange that seem to be more memorable. Fond memories of Christmas in Jamaica when my one concern was, how is Santa going to find us? Then waking up to a wind-torn living room. There was the time I spend the holidays commiserating with my shipmates instead of my family. Then there was the year we hiked instead of traveled.
Many memories that are warmed by the passage of time and cherished for their nostalgia.
This year will be one of those snowflake moments.
Our Christmas plans will be devoid of family. Instead, my husband and I will spend it with people in need. Our Christmas Eve was spent delivering meals to underserved families in our community. It took three hours to deliver thirty-five miles and it brought a lot of gratitude for what I do have this holiday season.
Another way we are enriching our Christmas and keeping it merry, bright, and on budget is by going on a hike Christmas Day.
Montana has an abundance of scenic views, mountain vistas, and frozen lakes. We plan to take advantage of all those greener things!
The gentle swirl of snow, the evergreens swaying in the breeze, and following the meandering mountain trails sounds like a delightful way to enjoy the holiday season! I can’t think of a better way to relax and socially distance than in the wilderness.
My expenses are similar to many other Christmas. However, this year will be vastly different from other years since Coronavirus has blown the traditional gatherings out like a candle.
As an optimist, I prefer to shift my focus from the merry, bright, and on budget part onto the memories we will craft. After all, its not every year that I get to enjoy Christmas evergreen views with my favorite hiking partner.